Hey great topic Bec!
For me the best is the same - the 'security' of being married. Oh and being able to say "my Husband.... " hahah I drop that in all the time - whenever I can.

The worst - hmmm not so much the worst, but the biggest adjustment has been sleeping. We didnt live together before we were married so adjusting to having someone sleeping next to me every night has been hard (for both of us) we're both the type to want to sleep diagonally across the bed with arms and legs everywhere - doesnt work so well with 2 people  :)

I think the best thing about being married for me is the security of having Trav right there always, knowing that no matter what happens I have a loving and supportive person next to me ready to do whatever it takes for us to achieve what we want to  :)

The worst thing I think is knowing that I'll have to iron his shirts for the rest of my life! lol  I hate ironing and I'm not the best at it either...we just bought a washing machine (ours blew up while we were on our honeymoon - oh, yay  ::) lol) and it has a crease care setting - I use it ALL the time so there are very few creases, try to hang them so the wind blows the rest out and then hope for the best!  I'm a shocker!!  :evil:

great topic Bec...

For me the best thing is knowing that he is all mine and I'm all his and we are going to be together for ever and be a family :)

The worst... well more the worst part about living with him because I can't see any bad side to our marriage... he is messy and doens't help out enough with the house work. Typical male! lol 

The best part.... Being a part of a team..

The worst?
Well.. the worst doesn't matter.. cos its part of what I agreed to when I said "I do"!.

I don't know about that sometimes  love him to death but marriage is definitely not an easy thing! can i change my worst - it should now be the lack of sex! i swear its so hard to not let everyday life get the better of you, seems we are always busy doing something and not spending enough quality time together, definitely puts a strain on the relationship (doesn't bloody help that we don't share the same bed)! 

Is it bad that even as newlyweds we don't have a lot of sex......?? I always heard stories of newlyweds going at it like rabbits.....but we just...don't..............

Caz  what?!? the vixen doesn't get to come out and play?!?

Its hard not to let everyday life get in the way and you seem to settle into a groove and get stuck in a rut as well, definitely dig yourself out before you get any deeper!

Nat, that is terrible about the phobia... if you ever need to vent/chat about anything give me a yell! Its something I have never admitted, especially since its a topic Chad and I never talk about despite me trying.... ever since I found out I couldnt have kids... I have lost interest in sex, for ages there it was us trying to make a baby that when i got the news it made me feel less of a woman and it just seemed pointless. Wow, that's pretty deep... suppose its finally nice to get it off my chest. I have tried to talk about it a few times but again its just met with jokes or vagueness so I just gave up and yes I am a thinker as well, its a huge turnoff lol

Quality of quantity definitely, but what if there is none?!? lol